Saturday, August 12, 2006
pre-nuptials...
Well... less than a month to go until the big day. Less than a month until "for better or for worse, 'til death do us part".
Of course we are not having this part included in our ceremony, but we all know that's what's gonna happen anyway, right? :)
As part of our pre-nuptial time, I have come up with the idea of not having sex anymore the entire month preceding our wedding. To be able to focus on other things, but mostly to let the tension build up until it gets unbearable, until it's finally released in our wedding night. Hey - I ain't no virgin, he ain't no virgin - gotta make this "out of the ordinary" somehow, right?
Needless to say, The Fiancé was not amused.
August 9 until September 9 no sex...?
The night of August 10, when he was panting on top of me with a grin of victory on his face over my easily overcome determination, I managed to negotiate 2 weeks for my "wedding-night-build-up-project".
2 weeks.
I am taking bets on whether or not we'll make it right now... *LOL*
Of course we are not having this part included in our ceremony, but we all know that's what's gonna happen anyway, right? :)
As part of our pre-nuptial time, I have come up with the idea of not having sex anymore the entire month preceding our wedding. To be able to focus on other things, but mostly to let the tension build up until it gets unbearable, until it's finally released in our wedding night. Hey - I ain't no virgin, he ain't no virgin - gotta make this "out of the ordinary" somehow, right?
Needless to say, The Fiancé was not amused.
August 9 until September 9 no sex...?
The night of August 10, when he was panting on top of me with a grin of victory on his face over my easily overcome determination, I managed to negotiate 2 weeks for my "wedding-night-build-up-project".
2 weeks.
I am taking bets on whether or not we'll make it right now... *LOL*
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Lordy, girl, I've noticed you do put so much pressure on yourself so much! Try not to expect too much out of each other that very first night, k? From experience, something that I've found we shared with almost everyone I've spoken to about the subject: it's a huge day and you're gonna be very tired; it likely won't be the best sex of your life that night: especially if you're *trying* to *make* it be fantastic, ya know?
"To be able to focus on other things, but mostly to let the tension build up until it gets unbearable"
You're aware that the two lines of logic in this sentence are incompatible, right? Uh huh, "focus". Good luck with that. ;)
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You're aware that the two lines of logic in this sentence are incompatible, right? Uh huh, "focus". Good luck with that. ;)
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