Monday, May 22, 2006
The Good, The Bad, and the Internet
Okay, so the internet so far has brought us many things, not all of which were entirely bad. Bud, for one thing, is something entirely good. So is Girlie 2, of which I realized I haven't even told you about yet. On the other hand, the internet can also spew forth many bad things. It can relay messages to you whose content you would much rather not have been privy of, and it can put a real flesh-and-blood meaning on the word "stalker":
Remember the person who I dubbed Mr. Cuba/Mr. Creep on here? The one whose incredible calculated sleaziness drove me into The Fiancé's and Steven's arms that same night for compensation, and who then kept on harrassing us with countless phone calls, before he got the point? Yeah, that one. Guess who emailed me the other day. After, uh... 5 months or so? Yeah, that one. And the audacity of this email of his is still boggling my mind in all the wrong ways, and drove The Fiancé to cursed promises of physical violence should he ever see his smug face again. Basically, he said that he "just waited until my boyfriend left town", and that he "just about should be gone by now"... but "hey, even if he isn't - why don't you meet me anyways, say, tomorrow around 10pm - that's no problem, is it?"
Wow. You'd think that after 37 unanswered phone calls dude should have taken the hint? And 5 months of not hearing one goddamn thing from us? And which logical calculation in the world makes him think that 5 months is enough time for The Fiancé to "just about be gone by now", and WHAT THE HELL makes him think that I would even consider cheating on my husband-to-be, who is all a woman could EVER dream of, with his Cuban sleazy ass? Who the hell does he think he is? And how fucking desperate does a man have to be to get back to someone after 5 months who couldn't have sent him to hell on any more clear terms than we did?
Yes, I am aware that in the process of getting to lead the lifestyle that we have in mind we have to weed through tons of the bad to reach the few good that we are looking for, and that it won't always be pretty. Mr. Creep is a very good example for this, and it makes me a bit apprehensive about approaching any more men through the internet. Bud was a lottery jackpot it seems, and it's not like we want to really experience and abundance of different partners if we have one that fits like a glove. Men are just too unpredictable that way.
On the good side, though, I have made contact with another girl. Her picture didn't captivate me at all, but her profile said she was tall (even taller than me, in fact), had a boyfriend, and wanted to make her first bisexual experiences. And since I am desperate and not picky, I leave all tall bi-curious girls in a relationship with a man a message and offer my services, lol. Turns out, Girlie is not only tall, bi-curious and in a relationship - she is also a medical doctor. And she writes the nicest emails. Unlike the girl with the sweet smile I mentioned earlier, she seems to genuinely be interested in meeting me, and she writes long and interesting emails that actually have something to do with the questions I asked her previously, and asks a bunch of new ones in the process. Through the course of our emails, through which we figured out that we like much of the same types of women, and are both intelligent girls who don't seem to run out of things to talk about (at least in writing), she gave me her work schedule for next week along with her phone number. I sent her a little text message yesterday just to say hello, and she texted me back in the evening saying how much she liked having heard from me that way. Honestly, she scares the bejeezus out of me (or rather: the thought of what may finally loom on my horizon), but I am eager to meet her and see if in reality we get along like that as well. She recently broke up with her boyfriend though, so the premises have changed a bit, though from what I have learned this may make things actually a bit less complicated.
So, I am positive. At any rate, I have dug out Mr. Creep's phone number again, just so I could recognize it, should he really be stupid enough to actually give me a ring after my response email to his unbelievable affront to The Fiancé. Let's hope he drops it now once and for all, The Fiancé highly pissed off really isn't something one may want to be faced with under any circumstances.
Remember the person who I dubbed Mr. Cuba/Mr. Creep on here? The one whose incredible calculated sleaziness drove me into The Fiancé's and Steven's arms that same night for compensation, and who then kept on harrassing us with countless phone calls, before he got the point? Yeah, that one. Guess who emailed me the other day. After, uh... 5 months or so? Yeah, that one. And the audacity of this email of his is still boggling my mind in all the wrong ways, and drove The Fiancé to cursed promises of physical violence should he ever see his smug face again. Basically, he said that he "just waited until my boyfriend left town", and that he "just about should be gone by now"... but "hey, even if he isn't - why don't you meet me anyways, say, tomorrow around 10pm - that's no problem, is it?"
Wow. You'd think that after 37 unanswered phone calls dude should have taken the hint? And 5 months of not hearing one goddamn thing from us? And which logical calculation in the world makes him think that 5 months is enough time for The Fiancé to "just about be gone by now", and WHAT THE HELL makes him think that I would even consider cheating on my husband-to-be, who is all a woman could EVER dream of, with his Cuban sleazy ass? Who the hell does he think he is? And how fucking desperate does a man have to be to get back to someone after 5 months who couldn't have sent him to hell on any more clear terms than we did?
Yes, I am aware that in the process of getting to lead the lifestyle that we have in mind we have to weed through tons of the bad to reach the few good that we are looking for, and that it won't always be pretty. Mr. Creep is a very good example for this, and it makes me a bit apprehensive about approaching any more men through the internet. Bud was a lottery jackpot it seems, and it's not like we want to really experience and abundance of different partners if we have one that fits like a glove. Men are just too unpredictable that way.
On the good side, though, I have made contact with another girl. Her picture didn't captivate me at all, but her profile said she was tall (even taller than me, in fact), had a boyfriend, and wanted to make her first bisexual experiences. And since I am desperate and not picky, I leave all tall bi-curious girls in a relationship with a man a message and offer my services, lol. Turns out, Girlie is not only tall, bi-curious and in a relationship - she is also a medical doctor. And she writes the nicest emails. Unlike the girl with the sweet smile I mentioned earlier, she seems to genuinely be interested in meeting me, and she writes long and interesting emails that actually have something to do with the questions I asked her previously, and asks a bunch of new ones in the process. Through the course of our emails, through which we figured out that we like much of the same types of women, and are both intelligent girls who don't seem to run out of things to talk about (at least in writing), she gave me her work schedule for next week along with her phone number. I sent her a little text message yesterday just to say hello, and she texted me back in the evening saying how much she liked having heard from me that way. Honestly, she scares the bejeezus out of me (or rather: the thought of what may finally loom on my horizon), but I am eager to meet her and see if in reality we get along like that as well. She recently broke up with her boyfriend though, so the premises have changed a bit, though from what I have learned this may make things actually a bit less complicated.
So, I am positive. At any rate, I have dug out Mr. Creep's phone number again, just so I could recognize it, should he really be stupid enough to actually give me a ring after my response email to his unbelievable affront to The Fiancé. Let's hope he drops it now once and for all, The Fiancé highly pissed off really isn't something one may want to be faced with under any circumstances.
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It's not the lifestyle, it's just people, or in my experience so far, men.
Occassionaly there is a person out there so desperately delusional to be a real pain in the ass. Hold on to that phone number, who knows when you may next recieve a freaks call.
Occassionaly there is a person out there so desperately delusional to be a real pain in the ass. Hold on to that phone number, who knows when you may next recieve a freaks call.
You know what's odd? While I've dealt with the weirdo male online, by and large it's been the women we've come in contact with that have been the real nutters. Sean seems to attract them (yeah, myself included.) Maybe it's because, at least for me, men seem easier to read. The women have dishonestly weasled their way in and caused incredibly destructive harm *after* developing a relationship a us. Guys show their Crazy right away.
But really this is at the base of it no different than a "normal" relationship when it comes to finding partners, ya know? Stupidity and insanity are universal.
But really this is at the base of it no different than a "normal" relationship when it comes to finding partners, ya know? Stupidity and insanity are universal.
"WHAT THE HELL makes him think that I would even consider cheating on my husband-to-be, who is all a woman could EVER dream of"
Freudian slip, eh? ;)
Freudian slip, eh? ;)
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Oops. I misread it. Well, that just makes me a jackass. I hope you can still love me anyway.
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