Tuesday, March 28, 2006
New attempt...
Ok, so I guess we will never learn. But how can I resist getting back to a guy whose initial email included the grammatically correct sentence "I can imagine most responses you get to your profile are not very classy... if you haven't given up hope yet, I'd love to hear from you", who then elaborated on his bisexuality in a classy way, did not once suggest to get laid with me "while my man watches", has a cute Golden Retriever, loves to speak English, and to whose pictures and emails The Fiancé - against all of my expectations - said "very nice... who cares that he seems a bit older than us".
Yeah, yeah... I said we won't do the internet thing anymore... but seriously - where else can people like us find people like us, huh? Do you, in a bar or some other socially acceptable hook-up place, walk up to a man/woman/couple and ask them straight out if they were bisexual, and if they'd wanna be friends with benefits with you?
Yeah, thought so too.
So Thursday is the day. Having learned from Mr. Creep, I have refused a "voice check" beforehand, reasoning that forced phone calls are just embarrassing and unnatural, and will not leave the right impression anyway. I have not given (and will not give) my phone number, and just suggested a meeting place/time instead with a significant way to recognize each other. That'll have to do, and if - again - the guy turns out to be impossible, then so be it. There will be no phone calls, and follow-up emails can be marked as spam, simple as that. He does, however, live in some very nice 'burbs that in a way symbolize good standing and/or good family situations, so he can't be all bad on a superficial level. We'll see. Getting rather tired of looking for people to fit our needs, and who would have thought that it would be even harder for us to find appropriate girls than men??? All girls that contacted us so far were some crazy leather-wearing, whip-swinging bitches with 10-inch lacquer heels, that wanted to "dominate my man with me".
Uh-huh. Aren't there any normal sweet girls out there anymore...???
Yeah, yeah... I said we won't do the internet thing anymore... but seriously - where else can people like us find people like us, huh? Do you, in a bar or some other socially acceptable hook-up place, walk up to a man/woman/couple and ask them straight out if they were bisexual, and if they'd wanna be friends with benefits with you?
Yeah, thought so too.
So Thursday is the day. Having learned from Mr. Creep, I have refused a "voice check" beforehand, reasoning that forced phone calls are just embarrassing and unnatural, and will not leave the right impression anyway. I have not given (and will not give) my phone number, and just suggested a meeting place/time instead with a significant way to recognize each other. That'll have to do, and if - again - the guy turns out to be impossible, then so be it. There will be no phone calls, and follow-up emails can be marked as spam, simple as that. He does, however, live in some very nice 'burbs that in a way symbolize good standing and/or good family situations, so he can't be all bad on a superficial level. We'll see. Getting rather tired of looking for people to fit our needs, and who would have thought that it would be even harder for us to find appropriate girls than men??? All girls that contacted us so far were some crazy leather-wearing, whip-swinging bitches with 10-inch lacquer heels, that wanted to "dominate my man with me".
Uh-huh. Aren't there any normal sweet girls out there anymore...???
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Here are some resources that a bisexual poly friend of mine posted to her LJ a while back. You may know about them, you may not. I figured I'd post them here, just in case.
Bisexual.com - a bisexual community site
BiCupid.com - a bisexual matchmaking site
OKCupid.com - you already know about this one I'm sure.
The Bi Women Network - they are NOT poly friendly. Other than that though, a cool site.
Mingledhearts.com - seem to have lots of members, although it looks like it may make me pay in a couple of days.
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Bisexual.com - a bisexual community site
BiCupid.com - a bisexual matchmaking site
OKCupid.com - you already know about this one I'm sure.
The Bi Women Network - they are NOT poly friendly. Other than that though, a cool site.
Mingledhearts.com - seem to have lots of members, although it looks like it may make me pay in a couple of days.
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