Tuesday, January 24, 2006
moving on to the fun stuff...
Still no word from the offending parties. I have resorted to simply not giving a shit. Something that The Fiancé always likes to say is: "Deal with the consequences of your actions." This is certainly what they will have to deal with now. Get married, end up divorced, barge into my own special time - whatever. Seriously. Try to drug me as your only resort to convey information to the last person not in the know, and then dump it on me via chat and ask The Fiancé way afterwards "so, how did she take it?", and then stay away like a vampire from sunlight - deal with the consequences. And that's the last thing I am going to say about that.
The Fiancé and I seem to have recovered from the problems that they have caused between him and I as well, so at least I am not toying with the thought of creative suicide anymore for the moment.
To distract myself from this whole horror scenario, I am currently entertaining myself again with some guy who responded to our ad on the internet. Let me ask you, people: what's better than one hot Latino in your bed? That's right - TWO hot Latinos in your bed! This particular specimen is quite handsome, bisexual, and from Cuba. From the looks of him, and The Fiancé's first reaction, all I can say is hola senor, mi casa es tu casa... LOL!
Na, but seriously. I like this because a) he speaks Spanish and therefore we as a couple do not rely on my people skills to get anywhere and I can lean back and let The Fiancé do all the initiations of "getting to know each other", and b) my picky man didn't seem at all turned off the way he is by the usual type of guy that responds to our ad. I am curious to see if he will really initiate contact with this individual, and if so, if this will get us anywhere this time. It seems that whenever I am having the task to set up a meeting I chicken out at some point and just "forget" to email them back or to call them. The Fiancé is much more sociable, much more socially dependable, and much more open towards meeting new people in general. I guess my anxiety doesn't help us much here, and whenever The Fiancé waits for me to set up a meeting with somebody, I am disappointing him because I suck at meeting people and much rather spend my time "forgetting" that I even intended on meeting anybody in the first place.
Here in this case I could just let them do the talking, let The Fiancé do the figuring out if he's attracted to this person or not, and I can just lean back and be pretty, lol.
At any rate, this is distracting to a certain point, if nothing else, and I'll keep you posted on whether or not The Fiancé took the step and contacted Mr. Cuba. Cause - sincerely - one has to focus on the important matters in life, hasn't one...
The Fiancé and I seem to have recovered from the problems that they have caused between him and I as well, so at least I am not toying with the thought of creative suicide anymore for the moment.
To distract myself from this whole horror scenario, I am currently entertaining myself again with some guy who responded to our ad on the internet. Let me ask you, people: what's better than one hot Latino in your bed? That's right - TWO hot Latinos in your bed! This particular specimen is quite handsome, bisexual, and from Cuba. From the looks of him, and The Fiancé's first reaction, all I can say is hola senor, mi casa es tu casa... LOL!
Na, but seriously. I like this because a) he speaks Spanish and therefore we as a couple do not rely on my people skills to get anywhere and I can lean back and let The Fiancé do all the initiations of "getting to know each other", and b) my picky man didn't seem at all turned off the way he is by the usual type of guy that responds to our ad. I am curious to see if he will really initiate contact with this individual, and if so, if this will get us anywhere this time. It seems that whenever I am having the task to set up a meeting I chicken out at some point and just "forget" to email them back or to call them. The Fiancé is much more sociable, much more socially dependable, and much more open towards meeting new people in general. I guess my anxiety doesn't help us much here, and whenever The Fiancé waits for me to set up a meeting with somebody, I am disappointing him because I suck at meeting people and much rather spend my time "forgetting" that I even intended on meeting anybody in the first place.
Here in this case I could just let them do the talking, let The Fiancé do the figuring out if he's attracted to this person or not, and I can just lean back and be pretty, lol.
At any rate, this is distracting to a certain point, if nothing else, and I'll keep you posted on whether or not The Fiancé took the step and contacted Mr. Cuba. Cause - sincerely - one has to focus on the important matters in life, hasn't one...
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