Thursday, October 06, 2005
Another way of Coming Out...
Is it getting easier because I've done it a few times by now, or because I got more self-confident and less self-conscious about who and what I am, or because it was my best friend I was talking with?
Either way... yesterday as I was talking with her on the phone, I briefly mentioned Mr. Austrostar and the opportunity I am having through him, and upon her questioning I answered on how I got in touch with these people.
K said: "But... you know what kind of contacts from women you would get via such single websites, don't you??? I mean... they are looking for sex partners there, not friends..."
I said: "Oh, yeah."
She said: nothing.
Then we had to hang up because the boss came in and I had to get back to the Desk o'Slavery™, and that was that. Today she called me back on something unrelated, and as I was about to hang up she intercepted and verbally pointed at what I had said to her the other day.
I said: "Oh... I thought I already told you that a long time ago?" All innocence. Of course I hadn't, but by asking her if I did, it made it all somehow seem much more matter of factly, much more established than it really is. She laughed and said: "Well, what woman doesn't have feelings like that. I went through my phase a long time ago."
Girl, I ain't going through no phase.
She said: "Does The Fiancé know about this???" My answer to which I think shocked her, for she said: "Geez, you people are perverts."
Why yes, we are - at least in theory. *grins*
Either way... yesterday as I was talking with her on the phone, I briefly mentioned Mr. Austrostar and the opportunity I am having through him, and upon her questioning I answered on how I got in touch with these people.
K said: "But... you know what kind of contacts from women you would get via such single websites, don't you??? I mean... they are looking for sex partners there, not friends..."
I said: "Oh, yeah."
She said: nothing.
Then we had to hang up because the boss came in and I had to get back to the Desk o'Slavery™, and that was that. Today she called me back on something unrelated, and as I was about to hang up she intercepted and verbally pointed at what I had said to her the other day.
I said: "Oh... I thought I already told you that a long time ago?" All innocence. Of course I hadn't, but by asking her if I did, it made it all somehow seem much more matter of factly, much more established than it really is. She laughed and said: "Well, what woman doesn't have feelings like that. I went through my phase a long time ago."
Girl, I ain't going through no phase.
She said: "Does The Fiancé know about this???" My answer to which I think shocked her, for she said: "Geez, you people are perverts."
Why yes, we are - at least in theory. *grins*
